Since childhood all I ever wanted was to be around people who would love me. Be it my best friend, my parents, my brother or my wife.
As I grew older my wish list began to expand. Now my dreams like all boys, had a sports bike and a big mansion with swimming pool in it.
But, the part that my family would stay with me, was always my number one wish. I made a lot of decisions which were more to keep my family together. I left lot of good call letters from companies far away, I left many good degrees or courses as you know which could have made me a millionaire in no time.
But, growth without a good backup(monetary or and political) requires lots of selfless dedication and work hours. No human has ever been able to reach his so called lavish dreams without compromising his/her family life.
Immediately after my high school, I became a doctor which my father always wanted me to be. Soon, I got married to a lovely woman. She is the perfect girl that my parents wished for, the perfect better half I could ask for.
I used to see my parents fight for pitty issues every now and then. So, I had in my mind that I'd be a different husband. I'll not unnecessarily scold my wife or argue with her. If something goes wrong we'll sort it out by explaining etc. And if it doesn't work out then I should be the one to accept the defeat and keep mum. I'll love my wife like no one else can.
A year of our marriage passed by. My wife, who now could openly speak up her mind started telling me about her future dreams. Since, the time she could think all she ever wanted to do was to become a successful doctor. She is a Pathologist now and wants to do post grad and training under a reputed centre for few years.
She thinks from her mind and I from my heart. As usual, I didn't want to persuade her to forget her wishes. I know the price that I'd need to pay for it. Our married life would be affected. We are already in 30s and the more we delay in our child more will be the chances in having a deformed baby due to genetic changes of advancing age. On top of it, my dream of keeping my family together gets shattered.
But, there have to be sacrifices if one needs a happy and fruitful life. Kids were never there in both of our dreams. And if I have to be supportive and caring to my wife, then I have to stick by her future dream plans and support her.
The name and fame that she'd garner would make me feel proud too. Monetarily speaking, any progress brings with it lot of attached gains too.
So, I'm going to stick by my wife's side and help her reach her dreams. I'll work hard too so that there remains a balance between us. And I hope the future holds a happy story ahead for both of us.
As I grew older my wish list began to expand. Now my dreams like all boys, had a sports bike and a big mansion with swimming pool in it.
But, the part that my family would stay with me, was always my number one wish. I made a lot of decisions which were more to keep my family together. I left lot of good call letters from companies far away, I left many good degrees or courses as you know which could have made me a millionaire in no time.
But, growth without a good backup(monetary or and political) requires lots of selfless dedication and work hours. No human has ever been able to reach his so called lavish dreams without compromising his/her family life.
Immediately after my high school, I became a doctor which my father always wanted me to be. Soon, I got married to a lovely woman. She is the perfect girl that my parents wished for, the perfect better half I could ask for.
I used to see my parents fight for pitty issues every now and then. So, I had in my mind that I'd be a different husband. I'll not unnecessarily scold my wife or argue with her. If something goes wrong we'll sort it out by explaining etc. And if it doesn't work out then I should be the one to accept the defeat and keep mum. I'll love my wife like no one else can.
A year of our marriage passed by. My wife, who now could openly speak up her mind started telling me about her future dreams. Since, the time she could think all she ever wanted to do was to become a successful doctor. She is a Pathologist now and wants to do post grad and training under a reputed centre for few years.
She thinks from her mind and I from my heart. As usual, I didn't want to persuade her to forget her wishes. I know the price that I'd need to pay for it. Our married life would be affected. We are already in 30s and the more we delay in our child more will be the chances in having a deformed baby due to genetic changes of advancing age. On top of it, my dream of keeping my family together gets shattered.
But, there have to be sacrifices if one needs a happy and fruitful life. Kids were never there in both of our dreams. And if I have to be supportive and caring to my wife, then I have to stick by her future dream plans and support her.
The name and fame that she'd garner would make me feel proud too. Monetarily speaking, any progress brings with it lot of attached gains too.
So, I'm going to stick by my wife's side and help her reach her dreams. I'll work hard too so that there remains a balance between us. And I hope the future holds a happy story ahead for both of us.
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